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Grounding Through the Five Senses: A Simple Mindfulness Practice to Reduce Stress
We’ve all had those moments when our thoughts race, anxiety takes over, or emotions feel overwhelming. In times like these, mindfulness can be a powerful tool to bring us back to the present.
How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty
Do you ever say yes when you really want to say no? Do you feel responsible for other people’s emotions, even at the expense of your own well-being?
Your Partner’s Feelings Matter More Than the Facts—Here’s Why
The truth is, when it comes to love, conflict, and connection, objective reality doesn’t matter nearly as much as how each person experiences the situation.
Welcome Stefanie to KKP!
We are excited to introduce the newest member of our team, Stefanie (she/her), Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying). Stefanie brings a warm, collaborative, and compassionate approach to therapy.
Emotional Immaturity in Relationships: Why It Happens and How to Move Forward
Have you ever felt like you’re in a relationship with someone who shuts down, lashes out, or avoids difficult conversations? Or maybe you’ve noticed these patterns in yourself.
Book Review: How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving by David Richo
David Richo’s How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving is a profound and insightful exploration of what it truly means to love with emotional maturity.
Groundhog Day in Your Relationship? How to Break Free from Negative Cycles
Have you ever felt like your relationship is stuck on repeat—having the same argument over and over with no resolution? It’s like your own version of Groundhog Day.
Mindful Intentions Practice for the New Year
This practice combines gratitude, intention-setting, and mindful breathing—three pillars of mindfulness that ground you in the present moment while aligning you with your values.
Why January Can Be Tough on Relationships—and How to Navigate It Together
The new year often brings with it a mix of emotions—hope for a fresh start, pressure to set resolutions, and for many couples, an unwelcome sense of strain in their relationship.
How to Stick to Your New Year’s Resolutions (Even When Motivation Fades)
It’s the start of a new year, and for many of us, that means setting resolutions. Maybe it’s eating healthier, exercising more, improving finances, or simply taking more time for self-care.
Reflecting on the Year: 10 Questions to Wrap Up 2024
Reflection is a powerful tool for growth—it helps us celebrate our wins, acknowledge our challenges, and set intentions for the future.
Why Relationships Struggle During the Holidays (and How to Strengthen Yours)
The holiday season carries a promise of joy and togetherness, yet for many couples, it can be a time of heightened tension and disconnection.
Gratitude: Why It’s a Game Changer
The idea of gratitude can feel a bit cliché, especially when life feels overwhelming. But if there’s one lesson I’ve learned, it’s that gratitude has the power to transform even the darkest seasons of our lives into something brighter.
Book Review: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
As a couples therapist, I’m often asked to help individuals and couples understand whether staying in a relationship is right for them, and it’s a question that carries immense emotional weight.
Deciding Whether to Stay or Go: Part 2 – Reflecting on What Comes Next
This month, let’s go a step further into the heart of the question by reflecting on some core insights that can help clarify your path forward.
Understanding Your Window of Tolerance
The “window of tolerance” is a useful concept to understand how we respond to stress and to help us learn ways to expand our capacity to manage life’s challenges effectively.
Should I stay, or should I go? Part 1
Deciding to leave a relationship can be one of the most heart-wrenching decisions you’ll ever face. It often involves conflicting feelings, hopes for change, and the fear of the unknown.
How I Learned to Meditate: My Journey to Mindfulness
When I was growing up, my dad had a book on his bookshelf called Full Catastrophe Living by Jon Kabat-Zinn. Although I didn't practice meditation back then, those moments were my first introduction to the idea of mindfulness.
Understanding Emotional Regulation
In this article, we’ll explore what emotional regulation is, why it’s important, and how understanding the "window of tolerance" can help you stay grounded and balanced, even in the most difficult moments.
Book Review: The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris
One book that I highly recommend is The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris. This book is a valuable resource for managing challenging emotions.